Inspired by Robb’s couple shot post, I thought of writing something similar to what my relationships ups and downs been going through.
I must admit, it is quite true to say that gay relationships do not last as long. Perhaps mainly the objective of a gay relationship is sex, sex and even more sex. I must admit that sex does come easier, if you are gay.
From all my relationships with my ex boy friends, I had only had a relationship that lasted me for 2 years; even that too started off with sex.
My very first boy friend was someone that I have bump into in a shopping mall, and I got to met him after a few conversation online. Our courtship never went out from my house, as he was really closet, and he did not want to be seen together with me by his friends.
It started out well, we enjoyed kissing each other, and eventually we had our first sexual encounter right in my bed room. We have been seeing each other this way for a year.
My second boy friend was a little more open. Meeting up with people that he know is gay, hanging out together is very very common with K. However, we did not meet up normally like any couple would have. I met him up in his relative’s place, and I was supposed to fetch him from his relative’s place back home.
It was the first night I was with K, it was also his first time having a boy friend, and sexual experience.
When I met A, things were a little different. We just had a chat over coffee, but that is what I would prefer to call it. In the actual fact, I was just busy checking out stuffs on my laptop while A look on. We hardly exchanged any words, and after that encounter, A said to me that he thinks I am different. Even we had had a lot of erotic conversation, meeting up with me was pleasant. There were no skin contacts and he liked it.
We did however, meet up for a quick blowjob after that.
Do all gay relationships has to be based on sex? Even though it has started that way between me and L, I really hope that one day things would be more different. I am truly in love with L and I think he knows that.