Why can’t we just get along?

I don’t know why is this always hap­pen­ing. The main ques­tion is, why can’t we just get along with each oth­er?

On the faith­ful Sat­ur­day, we were sup­posed to catch a musi­cal play. I mean, we haven done that before, and I thought it would be some­thing new for us, some­thing nice and some­thing dif­fer­ent. Look­ing at the clock, bare­ly 3 more hours before I pick him up, wait­ing anx­ious­ly and watch­ing the clock tick.

Then, my ex boy friend called me and need me to help him some­thing. His com­put­er had got prob­lems, and I thought of giv­ing him that help­ing hand. I told my boy friend about it, just as a habit of let­ting him know my where­abouts.

A few min­utes lat­er, a real­ly con­cerned boy friend called me on the cell, I sort of antic­i­pat­ed some­thing like this would hap­pen, but me being word­less, could not explain to him in prop­er words that noth­ing is going to hap­pen. He asked me why do I need to help him, he said he thought I have cut off con­tacts with my ex boy friend, he asked me why am I doing this, and do thing that.

I thought we were over all these already. I mean, I trust him enough to let him go out with his gay friends, and noth­ing like last time would hap­pen again. Why can’t he trust me with my ex boy friend? Besides, I am going to see him lat­er in the evening, sex is def­i­nite­ly not the issue here any­more, right ?

I was wrong, he mis­un­der­stood my inten­tion of going over to my ex boy friend’s place.

Per­haps I should not have told him that I was going to his place. But I don’t want him to feel cheat­ed lat­er on if he do find out. It was real­ly some­thing that I don’t know what to do.

It is almost 2 days now. He still have not replied to my SMS that I have sent him on both of his num­ber. His phone is unreach­able, I don’t know if it was done on pur­pose see­ing that his phone has got major prob­lems.

It wasn’t the first time that we quar­rel like this. I hate it when it hap­pens.

Why can’t we just get along? I mean, the movies that we went were great. The time that we spent not in argu­ment was fan­tas­tic. Why now, why this?

I don’t under­stand. Per­haps the boy was being inse­cure because I am going out with one of my ex. I mean yes my ex has got every rea­son to seduce me with his looks and charms, but I am way over him already. We rarely talk to each oth­er, and he only calls me when he need help with some­thing that he knows I can help him. I would def­i­nite­ly not going back to him for sex, that’s for sure.

Why can’t we just have a lit­tle more trust between our­selves. Why can’t we just have a lit­tle more trust between our­selves? Why can’t we just use the lit­tle things that we do that makes our­selves hap­py as a con­so­la­tion to mend our sor­row hearts? When will I learn to care about how he felt about the things I said?

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5 Responses to Why can’t we just get along?

  1. Glog July 14, 2008 at 12:52 am #

    Well, I sup­pose there is a sense of inse­cu­ri­ty in him… Maybe you should sit him down and talk to him… Tell him that you are just going over to fix his com­put­er and ask him to real­ly look into the fact that he as a bf should know you by now… Maybe that works?

  2. Cedric Ang July 14, 2008 at 10:52 am #

    No harm try­ing real­ly. But yes, I will give that a try, if he answers my calls.

  3. clement July 16, 2008 at 4:26 pm #

    if you have his email or snail mail add, try to send him a card to say sor­ry.

    I have some g-friends and they are more jeal­ous than girls. M g-friends are nice and they are very sen­si­tive and very con­cern abt friend­ship and rela­tion­ship.….

    It hap­pens not only in g- r/ship but to boy girl rela­tion as well. After all, we are all humans. Inse­cu­ri­ties and trust is the main fac­tor in a rela­tion­ship or in friend­ship as well.

    Ok good luck!

  4. Cedric Ang July 17, 2008 at 1:11 am #

    Just had a talk with the boy .. He seems to be okay, and I think every­thing went on well. Kudos.

  5. Cedric Ang July 17, 2008 at 1:54 am #

    clement: it’s done. Man­aged to call him and we spo­ken for a while and things are resolved now.