Why can’t we just get along?

I don’t know why is this always happening. The main question is, why can’t we just get along with each other?

On the faithful Saturday, we were supposed to catch a musical play. I mean, we haven done that before, and I thought it would be something new for us, something nice and something different. Looking at the clock, barely 3 more hours before I pick him up, waiting anxiously and watching the clock tick.

Then, my ex boy friend called me and need me to help him something. His computer had got problems, and I thought of giving him that helping hand. I told my boy friend about it, just as a habit of letting him know my whereabouts.

A few minutes later, a really concerned boy friend called me on the cell, I sort of anticipated something like this would happen, but me being wordless, could not explain to him in proper words that nothing is going to happen. He asked me why do I need to help him, he said he thought I have cut off contacts with my ex boy friend, he asked me why am I doing this, and do thing that.

I thought we were over all these already. I mean, I trust him enough to let him go out with his gay friends, and nothing like last time would happen again. Why can’t he trust me with my ex boy friend? Besides, I am going to see him later in the evening, sex is definitely not the issue here anymore, right ?

I was wrong, he misunderstood my intention of going over to my ex boy friend’s place.

Perhaps I should not have told him that I was going to his place. But I don’t want him to feel cheated later on if he do find out. It was really something that I don’t know what to do.

It is almost 2 days now. He still have not replied to my SMS that I have sent him on both of his number. His phone is unreachable, I don’t know if it was done on purpose seeing that his phone has got major problems.

It wasn’t the first time that we quarrel like this. I hate it when it happens.

Why can’t we just get along? I mean, the movies that we went were great. The time that we spent not in argument was fantastic. Why now, why this?

I don’t understand. Perhaps the boy was being insecure because I am going out with one of my ex. I mean yes my ex has got every reason to seduce me with his looks and charms, but I am way over him already. We rarely talk to each other, and he only calls me when he need help with something that he knows I can help him. I would definitely not going back to him for sex, that’s for sure.

Why can’t we just have a little more trust between ourselves. Why can’t we just have a little more trust between ourselves? Why can’t we just use the little things that we do that makes ourselves happy as a consolation to mend our sorrow hearts? When will I learn to care about how he felt about the things I said?

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5 Responses to Why can’t we just get along?

  1. Glog July 14, 2008 at 12:52 am #

    Well, I suppose there is a sense of insecurity in him… Maybe you should sit him down and talk to him… Tell him that you are just going over to fix his computer and ask him to really look into the fact that he as a bf should know you by now… Maybe that works?

  2. Cedric Ang July 14, 2008 at 10:52 am #

    No harm trying really. But yes, I will give that a try, if he answers my calls.

  3. clement July 16, 2008 at 4:26 pm #

    if you have his email or snail mail add, try to send him a card to say sorry.

    I have some g-friends and they are more jealous than girls. M g-friends are nice and they are very sensitive and very concern abt friendship and relationship…..

    It happens not only in g- r/ship but to boy girl relation as well. After all, we are all humans. Insecurities and trust is the main factor in a relationship or in friendship as well.

    Ok good luck!

  4. Cedric Ang July 17, 2008 at 1:11 am #

    Just had a talk with the boy .. He seems to be okay, and I think everything went on well. Kudos.

  5. Cedric Ang July 17, 2008 at 1:54 am #

    clement: it’s done. Managed to call him and we spoken for a while and things are resolved now.